Ahem. It’s hard to talk about these things, you know.
Especially at this time of year. We’re suppose to be grateful and happy and delighted.
We shouldn’t be having feelings of…overwhelm.
But I am.
It’s Harvest Time and the garden is overloaded with vegetables to harvest. There were beans, green onions, lettuce, cucumber, kale and tomatoes to pick today. Oh, and don’t forget the broccoli.
I’m afraid I got a little stressed this afternoon. Too much to do.

Gangly green onions
One shouldn’t even be complaining this year. It’s not like the garden is on over-drive or anything after our incredibly almost record-breaking cold summer. Canning isn’t even happening yet! Freezing is only moderately happening. I’m not making zucchini relish, pickled beets or pickled beans, as in past years.
But there is still a mountain of vegetables to pick and wash and cook and eat. A never-ending supply. I spent…how many hours was it in the kitchen today? Two, three? On and off, trekking between the garden and the kitchen sink. The refrigerator is over-flowing.
The tomatoes are finally turning lovely shades of orange and red. We have picked and eaten maybe four of the luscious globes.

Look at this orange one! Should be ready to pick in a couple days.
And I discovered the first of the zucchini poking out under all those huge leaves today. Imagine that! A month ago there were dire predictions that we would not see a single zucchini this year. But, there she is:

Zucchini growing out of its flower
Here is my problem. I want to do be doing other things, rather than slaving in the garden and kitchen for hours. Here is what I wanted to be doing:
1) reading a really good book called “The Help” on the lawn chair on the deck in the lovely warm weather with a cup of tea. I tried. For five minutes. Then the 1001 other chores took precedence and the day’s relaxation was abandoned.
2) reading other people’s blogs. I am once again ‘way behind on the adventures of friends and acquaintances.
3) calling certain friends. It’s been too long since some of us have caught up.
4) oh this list could go on and on. But I was in the garden and kitchen.

Wouldn't it be nice...?
Every September I feel this way. My two part-time jobs are at their busiest. And the garden is always a hard task-master, demanding you keep up every single day, whether you feel like it or not.
At the top of the list for tomorrow morning is: dehydrate wild mushrooms. That must be done, pronto. And then there’s all those tomatoes coming on which means salsa. All before I leave for Georgia in one week to visit my in-laws. (Really looking forward to outdoor adventures near Athens, Georgia!)
So, anyway, thank you for listening to this confession. I really do feel grateful for all the vegetables and mushrooms and berries. Honest. If only the harvest didn’t come all at once. But it does sure taste so wonderful…
P.S. almost forgot to tell you! It’s our anniversary today. We’ve been married…how many years now?…31 years!

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September 9, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Jessica
Your garden looks awesome – even if it does require lots of work.
I live in GA…never heard anyone get excited to visit…but I think it’s just because I’m, well, HERE….
September 10, 2009 at 6:52 pm
centria
Oh Jessica, I am EXCITED to go to Georgia! I can’t wait! (and yep it’s probably because you live there…)
September 9, 2009 at 8:39 pm
Gerry
Happy Anniversary to you
Happy Anniversary to you
Happy Anniversary dear Kathy and Barry
May you always love true
And may you always have abundance. Particularly tomatoes.
If I lived up there I’d come over and work in your garden for you while you read on the deck, on account of I never have a garden myself.
September 10, 2009 at 6:53 pm
centria
Thanks for the anniversary wishes, Gerry. Did I mention that Barry wrote a column in the newspaper bemoaning his lack of tomatoes and strangers and acquaintances have been dropping off tomatoes for a couple weeks now? But…guess what!…they’re coming on! And, when did you say, were you coming?
September 9, 2009 at 8:48 pm
wildstorm
What a great entry. And I understand your feelings. I love gardening, every minute of it. Unfortunately I also feel like taking a day off or two or three and one must not ignore the bounty in the garden even for one day.
September 10, 2009 at 6:54 pm
centria
wildstorm, we’re kindred spirits. Thank you for understanding! It’s wonderful to garden, but it gets to be a little TOO MUCH on certain days.
September 9, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Christie Eagan
Happy Anniversary from your maid of honor. OMG it sure doesn’t seem like 31 years ago. I was just thinking about your anniversary the other day, told myself not to forget to send best wished your way.
Oh by the way stop stressing, what gets done with get done. It all sounds pretty yummy…
September 10, 2009 at 6:55 pm
centria
Christie, oh my goodness, can you believe it’s been all those years ago?? Where have the years gone? We were such young ‘uns back then. Younger than Kiah is now. I am so very glad that you and I have been able to re-connect in the last few years. And I am always so glad when you stop by the blog, too. Hope you’ve had a good summer downstate!
September 9, 2009 at 11:42 pm
Jessica
Happy Anniversary! Good luck with all the packing of veggies. I will post a blog tomorrow about we were picking this afternoon and tomorrow. It is really yummy and I think they will make you smile
September 10, 2009 at 6:56 pm
centria
Thanks, Jessica. I will have to scurry over to your blog and read (although it might take ’til tomorrow. Even though things have calmed down a lot. I am now trying to divvy up blog reading on odd and even days. We’ll see how it works. Can’t wait to read!) And thanks for the anniversary wishes.
September 10, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Jessica
I just got it posted today. We have been pretty busy here too. Have fun with your abundant veggies
September 10, 2009 at 3:15 am
Reggie
From me too – HAPPY ANNI!!! May there be LOADS more! 31 years is quite an achievement in this day-and-age.
So congratulations!
If I could, I’d hop on over with Gerry and help you in the garden. I *do* have a garden, but it’s not (yet) a vegetable garden.
That’s still one of the fantasies I have, but which I haven’t implemented yet (lots of reasons-excuses – not sure if it’ll work, we’ve got a lot of snails and slugs and I don’t want to use any pesticides, the birds will devour the seedlings before they get a chance to grow, clearing the only area of the garden that is potentially sunny enough to grow veggies is a seriously daunting mission, the weather is so unpredictable, we’ll have to construct some sort of netting or screen to protect the plants, it’ll all be far too much hard work… sigh….)
However, helping someone else to HARVEST stuff from THEIR by-all-accounts-ravishing gardens, now THAT is FUN and ENJOYABLE!
Good luck with the harvest, Kathy. Happy munching!
September 10, 2009 at 6:59 pm
centria
Oh Reggie, I understand your predicament! It IS hard work. I would love your assistance. You and Gerry can come for the weekend (ha ha) and we’ll have a little party. We have to have an electric fence around our little garden because the deer come in and eat every single vegetable they can find. One year they even ate tomato stalks. It took me five years to get used to the electric fence. Guess I’m used to it now. But we, too, are trying to do it without pesticides (although we’ve had to use some organic stuff to try and prevent blight this year). It’s challenging at times. Let me know if you ever decide to try, and how it goes!
September 10, 2009 at 5:45 am
flandrumhill
Years ago I was such a successful gardener of tomatoes and strawberries and got SO stressed out with dealing with the overabundance of them that it turned me off of both them AND gardening produce. Too much of a good thing can do that.
Happy happy anniversary
September 10, 2009 at 7:00 pm
centria
Thank you, Ms. Amy for the anniversary wishes. We really didn’t have much time to celebrate yesterday with all the busy-ness and then I had a meeting which lasted for several hours last night. Then there was the posting of the blog. (We’re thinking of going out to dinner tomorrow night up in Houghton, though.) Your words made me feel relieved. That I wasn’t the only one stressed about over-abundance!
September 10, 2009 at 7:09 am
Cindy Lou
I know exactly how you feel – school starts and the veggies get ready! When I lived in MT, it was still crazy hot and the kids were little and it was NOT fun. It’s one of the reasons I don’t have huge veggie gardens anymore – just seems like too much work. Remember the year Kiah made me ‘salsa verde?’ Yummy! And when she used to call me from her babysitting job to find out how to cook sloppy joes or some other thing for lunch? Ahh, memories…..of which you and Barry must have many after 31 years! Happy, happy day!
How are you liking “The Help?” Bet you wish you had some help with your produce – ha! Love ya!
September 10, 2009 at 7:02 pm
centria
How do you handle vegetable gardening AND a full time job? Well, it’s true, you don’t have huge gardens any more. I just finished The Help today and loved it!! It was a great book. High recommendations. Wonder if our Book Club would want to read it? And you know what, I do remember the year of the Salsa Verde Kiah made you. Oh how many years ago that was… Hope school is going good thus far!
September 10, 2009 at 9:06 am
Kiah
Mom, fly me home pronto. I’ll take over in the garden & kitchen.
Cindy, I had forgotten! Thank you for your assistance with sloppy joes & grilled cheese & burgers. Funny to think I was contemplating culinary school this year after remembering that!
September 10, 2009 at 7:03 pm
centria
Fly you home pronto! You’re funny. Maybe I should come to NYC and leave your dad to harvest the garden. I mentioned h might have to can salsa while I was gone and already he’s nervous and carrying on about that possibility. No, probably I’ll do it Wednesday… You can eat the salsa next time you’re home!
September 10, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Kiah
Remember for my batch–puree, puree, puree. Don’t leave those awful big chunks that Dad loves. I don’t want to eat half a tomato in one bite. Great, thanks, love you!
Tee hee..
September 10, 2009 at 10:36 am
CWD
I thought the deal was a place to stay in Georgia in exchange for pickled beans, zucchini relish and the famous salsa.
September 10, 2009 at 7:04 pm
centria
As for you, CWD, favorite brother-in-law, was that the deal??? You didn’t really want to see me just for myself? It was the canned goods all this time??
September 10, 2009 at 9:03 pm
treehousejukebox
It’s so sad, because I would really love to help with your garden if I could!
Happy Anniversary!
September 11, 2009 at 6:29 pm
centria
Emma, didn’t we talk about you helping with the garden way back last year? Would love your help!! Thanks for the good wishes.
September 10, 2009 at 9:39 pm
Susan D.
Feeling you, Sister, and feel grateful for your humanity. Don’t answer this. No need. We speak to one another all the time through Spirit.
Congrats on long marriage and celebration of the union!!!
Love,
Susan
September 11, 2009 at 6:30 pm
centria
Oh Susan….how can I NOT answer this when you say such lovely things? Feeling so connected with you lately, even though you’re way across the bay and we never even see each other hardly at all! Thank you for your kind congratulations, as well. Love to you, Kathy
September 10, 2009 at 11:33 pm
kathusitalo
Happy Anniversary to you!
September 11, 2009 at 6:31 pm
centria
Kath, the only thing that would have made the anniversary better was if I didn’t have to run off to a meeting. But thank you, too!
September 19, 2009 at 11:46 am
allielujah
Oh! 31 years! That is so awesome! =] Happy anniversary, though a few days late!
September 20, 2009 at 8:01 am
centria
thank you, Allie!
September 9, 2011 at 6:15 am
Elisa's Spot
Now see, even in your complaining and the listing of the luscious gardening things touched upon my inner visual gardening strangling dress speaking bits to say ahhhhhhhhhhh yes THAT IS THE IDEAL LIFE! Going out of a door onto a deck noticing a lovely comfy lounge, accoutered with book and mug, beckoning to me with seductive lover eyes….distracted by thoughts and scents of touching so many veggies and creating with them and so on and so forth. Nevermind those flashes of sinks full of bushels of green beans, waxed beans and tomatoes some year ago–who would have thunk that washing them would create back ache? Maybe it was the leaning over to pick them?
Happy Anniversary Kathy and Barry, man husband-type person!
September 12, 2011 at 7:14 am
Kathy
Thank you, Elisa, for pointing me back toward this blog–it reminds me that I am always feeling busy and overwhelmed at this time of year. I had to process hundreds and hundreds of taxes for my job yesterday plus a wedding away from town this weekend, plus another wedding reception, plus the start of the school year, plus Barry’s health problems, plus wanting to enjoy the last couple of days with Kiah. The garden? Haven’t had time for it in the last five days and it’s going crazy! **smile** Today have to work five hours at school, come home and stack wood, process taxes and make dinner before returning for a meeting. When I look at it as “busy” I get stressed. When I look at it is as “full” it feels just right. Thanks for the anniversary wishes and your thoughts and feelings.